Changing the addiction with another one ... a silly trick that does not change anything… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Changing the addiction with another one ... a silly trick that does not change anything… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Truth be told is that sometimes we love the addictions.
The addiction itself is the infinite need for something that we need in the real life, but somehow we cannot have it.
Someone who is drinking for example ... needs something to make him forget about the problems from the real life.
The disability to see the problems in a much relaxed way ... makes that individual believes that the addiction for alcohol helps him a lot ... and that he really needs that.
Years ago, i was dealing with thousands of clients every year.
Drinking wine after work ... helped me ... or at least this is what i believed ... to relax more and forget about all the problems i had during the day.
Today many of the young people have the addiction for all kinds of drugs ... and is mainly the desire of being happy.
They can’t see any way of being happy for real ... so the addiction for drugs helps them be happy for a while.
There are also people that have love affairs, because they are not happy at home ... and they do this from the day they get married to the end of their life.
The addiction is actually having the illusion of change for a short time.
People are using addictions ... believing that this actually helps them, till the day when they see that the addiction just ruins their souls.
And the only trick they can find is change the addiction with another one ... believing that they are on the right path.
But they just don’t understand what is behind the addiction ... and that change can be also real ... not only illusory.
A person that is cheating his partner, believing that having a new love affair will help him to be happy ... or someone that is taking drugs and believes that being happy for few hours is amazing, but in the morning sees that in the real life nothing changed ... this is the truth about the addictions.
Changing the addiction with a new one ... will not redefine the reality that you probably dislike ... and is only a silly decision.
All the ones having addictions ... should meditate more on what is behind the addiction ... and think of a path for a real change.
Don’t use the addictions as a mask for a better reality ... is useless!
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